Popular Taiwan actor 柯震東 Ke Zhen Dong 請比我愛她 Qing Bi Wo Ai Ta Please Love Her More Than I do: Mandarin han yu lyrics, pinyin, English translation, quotes of blessings, Laura Story Blessings

柯震東 Ke Zhendong / English Kai Ko / birth name 柯家凱 Ke Jiakai, grew up in 澎湖 Penghu County Taiwan. Ke is currently attending Chinese Culture University, Department of Physical Education in Taiwan. In 2011, he played the lead actor in the movie 那些年,我們一起追的女孩 na xie nian , women yi qi zhui de nu hai (The girl who we chased together in those years; the English title for the movie is You are the apple of my eye ) and won the 48th Golden Horse Award for best New Performer Award. For the theme song of this movie which is also one of the best Chinese songs in those years, see http://www.chinesetolearn.com/?p=1501

柯震東《請比我愛她》

柯震東
Ke Zhen Dong

請比我愛她
Qing Bi Wo Ai Ta
Please Love Her More Than I do

爱没有缘故 心却太反覆
ài méi yǒu yuán gù xīn què tài fǎn fù
Love has no reasons, however, the heart is too indecisive and changeable

占有一个人不等于留得住
zhàn yǒu yī gè rén bù děng yú liú de zhù
Possession of a person is not equal to be able to keep him or her

不如就祝福
bù rú jiù zhù fú
It would be better to give blessings

爱无关胜负
ài wú guān shèng fù
Love is nothing to do with victory or loss

只要你对她付出
zhī yào nǐ duì tā fù chū
As long as you invest time and energy on her

看着她微笑就值得我满足
kàn zhe tā wéi xiào jiù zhí de wǒ mǎn zú
Looking at her smile would be worth letting me feel content

我何不托付
wǒ hé bù tuō fù
Why don’t I entrust

一段爱 只能够是双数
yī duàn ài zhī néng gòu shì shuāng shù
A love, can only be even number

删除我 不在乎孤独
shān chú wǒ bù zài hū gū dú
Delete me, I don’t care about loneliness

你和她 如果更让人羡慕
nǐ hé tā rú guǒ gèng ràng rén xiàn mù
You and her, if can let people envy more

答应我绝对要幸福
dá yìng wǒ jué duì yào xìng fú
Promise me that you have to be absolute happy

请比我爱她 带她离开吧
qǐng bǐ wǒ ài tā dài tā lí kāi ba
Please love her more than I do, and bring her away

给她无忧的天空飞翔
gěi tā wú yōu de tiān kōng fēi xiáng
Give her the worry free sky to fly

我总会到达 另一个天涯
wǒ zǒng huì dào dá lìng yī gè tiān yá
I either way will reach the other edge of the world

一个人慢慢忘了她
yī gè rén màn màn wàng le tā
Alone gradually will forget about her

请比我爱她 别管我挣扎
qǐng bǐ wǒ ài tā bié guǎn wǒ zhèng zhā
Please love her more than I do, and don’t worry about my struggles

我只是眼里飞进了沙
wǒ zhī shì yǎn lǐ fēi jìn le shā
It just the sand flew into my eyes

不让泪流下 切断了牵挂
bù ràng lèi liú xià qiē duàn le qiān guà
Don’t let the tears flow down, sever the worries

让她快乐 就是最好的报答
ràng tā kuài lè jiù shì zuì hǎo de bào dá
Let her be happy is the best repay

爱没有缘故 心却太反覆
ài méi yǒu yuán gù xīn què tài fǎn fù
Love has no reasons, however heart is too indecisive and changeable

占有一个人不等于留得住
zhàn yǒu yī gè rén bù děng yú liú de zhù
Possession of a person is not equal to be able to keep him or her

不如就祝福
bù rú jiù zhù fú
It would be better to give blessings

爱无关胜负
ài wú guān shèng fù
Love is nothing to do with victory or loss

只要你对她付出
zhī yào nǐ duì tā fù chū
As long as you invest time and energy on her

看着她微笑就值得我满足
kàn zhe tā wéi xiào jiù zhí de wǒ mǎn zú
Looking at her smile would be worth letting me feel content

我何不托付
wǒ hé bù tuō fù
Why don’t I entrust

一段爱 只能够是双数
yī duàn ài zhī néng gòu shì shuāng shù
A love, can only be even number

删除我 不在乎孤独
shān chú wǒ bù zài hū gū dú
Delete me, I don’t care about loneliness

你和她 如果更让人羡慕
nǐ hé tā rú guǒ gèng ràng rén xiàn mù
You and her, if can let people envy more

答应我绝对要幸福
dá yìng wǒ jué duì yào xìng fú
Promise me that you have to be absolute happy

请比我爱她 带她离开吧
qǐng bǐ wǒ ài tā dài tā lí kāi ba
Please love her more than I do, and bring her away

给她无忧的天空飞翔
gěi tā wú yōu de tiān kōng fēi xiáng
Give her the worry free sky to fly

我总会到达 另一个天涯
wǒ zǒng huì dào dá lìng yī gè tiān yá
I either way will reach the other edge of the world

一个人慢慢忘了她
yī gè rén màn màn wàng le tā
Alone gradually will forget about her

请比我爱她 别管我挣扎
qǐng bǐ wǒ ài tā bié guǎn wǒ zhèng zhā
Please love her more than I do, and don’t worry about my struggles

我只是眼里飞进了沙
wǒ zhī shì yǎn lǐ fēi jìn le shā
It just the sand flew into my eyes

不让泪流下 切断了牵挂
bù ràng lèi liú xià qiē duàn le qiān guà
Don’t let the tears flow down, sever the worries

让她快乐 就是最好的报答
ràng tā kuài lè jiù shì zuì hǎo de bào dá
Let her be happy is the best repay

请比我爱她 带她离开吧
qǐng bǐ wǒ ài tā dài tā lí kāi ba
Please love her more than I do, and bring her away

给她无忧的天空飞翔
gěi tā wú yōu de tiān kōng fēi xiáng
Give her the worry free sky to fly

我总会到达 另一个天涯
wǒ zǒng huì dào dá lìng yī gè tiān yá
I either way will reach the other edge of the world

一个人慢慢忘了她
yī gè rén màn màn wàng le tā
Alone gradually will forget about her

请比我爱她 别管我挣扎
qǐng bǐ wǒ ài tā bié guǎn wǒ zhèng zhā
Please love her more than I do, and don’t worry about my struggles

我只是眼里飞进了沙
wǒ zhī shì yǎn lǐ fēi jìn le shā
It just the sand flew into my eyes

不让泪流下 切断了牵挂
bù ràng lèi liú xià qiē duàn le qiān guà
Don’t let the tears flow down, sever the worries

让她快乐 就是最好的报答
ràng tā kuài lè jiù shì zuì hǎo de bào dá
Let her be happy is the best repay

Translated by Shu

Quotes of blessings:

“Reflect upon your present blessings — of which every man has many — not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.”
― Charles Dickens, A Christmas Carol and Other Christmas Writings

“When we lose one blessing, another is often most unexpectedly given in its place.”
― C.S. Lewis

“Those who expect to reap the blessings of freedom, must, like men, undergo the fatigues of supporting it.”
― Thomas Paine

“For Equilibrium, a Blessing:
Like the joy of the sea coming home to shore,
May the relief of laughter rinse through your soul.

As the wind loves to call things to dance,
May your gravity by lightened by grace.

Like the dignity of moonlight restoring the earth,
May your thoughts incline with reverence and respect.

As water takes whatever shape it is in,
So free may you be about who you become.

As silence smiles on the other side of what’s said,
May your sense of irony bring perspective.

As time remains free of all that it frames,
May your mind stay clear of all it names.

May your prayer of listening deepen enough
to hear in the depths the laughter of god.”
― John O’Donohue, To Bless the Space Between Us: A Book of Invocations and Blessings

“When you wish someone joy, you wish them peace, love, prosperity, happiness… all the good things.”
― Maya Angelou

“Give yourself entirely to those around you. Be generous with your blessings. A kind gesture can reach a wound that only compassion can heal.”
― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Live your truth. Express your love. Share your enthusiasm. Take action towards your dreams. Walk your talk. Dance and sing to your music. Embrace your blessings. Make today worth remembering.”
― Steve Maraboli

“It is only with true love and compassion that we can begin to mend what is broken in the world. It is these two blessed things that can begin to heal all broken hearts.”
― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

These quotes come from http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/tag/blessings

Laura Story Blessings (lyrics)

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自作自受 zi zuo zi shou Proverbs, sayings about reap what you sow; self do, self have. Learn Mandarin Chinese – How to say – The woman has a dark bruise on her arm. Yellowcard- Shadows and Regrets (lyrics)

Learn Mandarin Chinese – How to say – The woman has a dark bruise on her arm.

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那个女人的手臂上有一块紫色的瘀青。
nà ge nǚrén de shǒubì shàng yǒu yī kuài zǐsè de yū qīng .
nà ( 那 pronoun, that) ge ( 个 measure word) nǚrén (女人 noun, woman) de (的connecting particle to put after the attributive and before the noun it modifies) shǒu bì (手臂 noun, arm) shàng (上 preposition word, on) yǒu (那个有 verb, have) yī (一 number one) kuài (块 measure word) zǐsè (紫色 purple color) de (的 connecting particle) yū qīng (瘀青 noun, bruise) .

Purple is a nice color, however, purple bruise is never good to be seen on any body. Hope you always be careful, and never bring bruises or scars to your body or mind. Always think before you do things, then you will never have to bear the ill consequence of your own doings.

How to say these following proverbs or sayings in Mandarin Chinese?

1.Self do, self have.
2.Bear the ill consequence of one’s own doings
3.You buried yourself.
4.You made the bed,now you sleep in it.
6.Who spits against heaven, it falls in his face.
7.Lie in the bed one has made.
8.Stew in one’s own juice.
9.Reap the fruits of one’s action.
10.Suffer through one’s own misdeeds.
11. You reap what you sow.

This is the idiom you need for the above:
自作自受: [ zì zuò zì shòu ]

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This idiom comes from
敦煌变文集:“汝母在生之日,都无一片善心,终朝杀害生灵,每日欺凌三宝,自作自受。”
Duìhuáng biànwén jí : ” rǔ mǔ zài shēng zhī rì , dōu wú yī piàn shàn xīn , zhōng Cháo shā hài shēng líng , měi rì qī líng sān bǎo , zì zuò zì shòu . ”

Duìhuáng (place name) biànwén (transformation text) jí (collection) : ” rǔ (possessive pronoun, your) mǔ (noun, mother) zài (preposition, at or in) shēng (adjective, alive) zhī (connecting particle) rì (noun, day) , dōu (adverb, all) wú (negate word, no) yī (number, one) piàn (measure word) shàn (adjective, kind) xīn (noun, heart) , zhōng (adjective, all) cháo, noun, morning or day) shā (verb, kill) hài (verb, harm) shēng (adjective, alive) líng (noun, spirit) , měi rì (everyday) qī (verb, bully) líng (verb, humiliate) sān bǎo (noun, three treasures of Buddhism) , zì (pronoun, self) zuò (verb, do) zì (self) shòu (suffer) . ”

Dunhuang transformation text: Your mother when she was alive, she had no kind heart; all day she killed living things, and every day bullied and humiliated the Three Precious Treasures of Buddhism, thus, (what happened to her) is called she suffers through her own misdeeds.

三宝 sān bǎo: the Three Precious Treasures of Buddhism, namely: the Buddha 佛 Fó , the Dharma 法 fǎ (his teaching), and the Sangha 僧 sēng (his monastic order)

Similar idioms:

自食其果
zì shí qí guǒ
zì (self) shí (eat) qí (his or her) guǒ (fruit)

自讨苦吃
zì tǎo kǔ chī
zì (self) tǎo (beg or request) kǔ (bitterness) chī (eat)

自投罗网
zì tóu luó wǎng
zì (self) tóu (throw into) luó (collecting) wǎng (net)

The opposite of the idiom:
嫁祸于人
jià huò yú rén
jià (shift) huò (blame) yú (to) rén (other people)

Sample sentences about how to use the idioms:

自作自受
zì zuò zì shòu
她做了一件非常不对的事,她因此体重大降,生活困难,真是自作自受。
tā zuò le yī jiàn fēi cháng bù duì de shì , tā yīn cǐ tǐ zhòng dà jiàng , shēng huó kùn nan , zhēn shì zì zuò zì shòu .
She did a very wrong thing, thus, her weight got dropped a lot, and her life became very difficult; it is called — You made the bed,now you sleep in it.

自食其果
zì shí qí guǒ
她做了不该做的事,良心受到谴责,自食其果。
tā zuò le bù gāi zuò de shì , liáng xīn shòu dào qiǎn zé , zì shí qí guǒ .
She did a thing that she should not have done, and her conscience is punishing her and she is like eating her own (bitter) fruit (or reap one has sown).

自讨苦吃
zì tǎo kǔ chī
这件事他没能力做,可是他抢着要做, 真是自讨苦吃。
zhè jiàn shì tā méi néng lì zuò , kěshì tā qiǎng zhe yào zuò , zhēn shì zì tǎo kǔ chī .
This thing he was not capable to do, however, he scrambled to do it; it is called — self requests (asks for) the troubles.

自投罗网
zì tóu luó wǎng
警察正在找他,没想到他自投罗网。
jǐngchá zhèng zài zhǎo tā , méi xiǎng dào tā zì tóu luó wǎng
The police was looking for him, and did not expect him to walk right into the trap.

The opposite of the idiom:

嫁祸于人
jià huò yú rén
那个人做错事, 不怪自己,还嫁祸于人。
nà gè rén zuòcuò shì , bù guài zìjǐ , hái jiàhuòyú rén .
That person did wrong things, however, he did not blame himself, but swifted the blame to others.

Yellowcard- Shadows and Regrets (lyrics)

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